Striving to be better creates a sense of insufficiency

Comparison causes hurt We want to make something out of our lives. Because we feel, right now, our lives aren’t very meaningful. We feel insufficient. What creates this sense of insufficiency? I think it is what we’re taught to think in terms of insufficiency. We’ve compared ourselves to others constantly right from our early childhood. This comparison causes hurt. When a parent compares the older…

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Siteground vs Bluehost: (10 Ultimate Comparisons for Beginner Bloggers By a Programmer)

Siteground vs Bluehost Who is a better web host for hosting your next WordPress blog? I say blog because I want to write this article for beginner bloggers who want to start a potentially successful blog.  WordPress is the best blogging platform, even for beginners. And, I want to look at WordPress hosting specifically here because that is, hands-down, the best blogging software out there. …

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The Right Mindset For Blogging

When starting a blog, you not only need to know the mechanics and the technical aspects of it but also a way to keep you motivated. If you are not motivated, you are someone like me, who gets easily bored, you need a way to keep going. Starting a blog is rather simple. Keeping on writing, and keeping the momentum, that is rather hard. Find…

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Deal with facts

Fact: I am afraid Non fact: I should be courageous Why do we deal with something illusory all the time? We’re afraid, we create an idea of courage and say I should be courageous. Here, fear is the only fact. The idea of courage is not facing fear. It is turning away from fear. To find an answer to a problem, the problem must be…

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Fear of stupidity in meditation and relationships

We are afraid to be stupid or to appear to be stupid. Because of this, we are afraid to fail, and attempt things that can’t be well controlled. We plan for failures. We’re bringing the past failures and accounting for that in this planning, and that way repeating the same pattern. Planning is basically this. To re-create something already known, using the methods to avert…

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Care for fear

When we look at our fear with attention, without the past recognition of fear, look at the feeling of it. There is great care. That attention perhaps brings about a certain sense of care towards fear, and perhaps love towards fear. I am not talking about ‘self-love’, which is stupid in my opinion. I am not talking about cultivating anything. I am talking about attending…

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