Hi, I’m Hash.
I’m a socially awkward traveller – gave up my programming job 4 years ago in favour of travelling and self-improvement – well at that time to talk to girls. Since then I have lived in some countries and have travelled to some. I took seminars, went to hippy parties, workshops, lived in a cult, explored my sexuality and even got fake married for a month to research relationships – I will tell you about it if you ask me.
Eventually I exhausted my savings and returned to London in 2017. Worked for a little bit more. And soon found out that the 9-5 and having a boss was killing me. I decided to take my coaching skills with me and started coaching people and got into writing. This time I want to stay on the road for a little longer, inspire people wherever I go.
Here, I write about travel, my views on human psyche, relationships, making money online and my own thoughts and feelings.
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Some relationship advice now. I am not a relationship expert by any means. I have some experience in coaching people on relationships before. I have taken numerous courses around this subject, even got married for two months (fake) to try out what marriage feels like. Now, it is not the real deal but [...]
I don’t think there is such a thing as fear of the unknown. Here’s why. You don’t know what is going to happen so why are you afraid of something that you don’t know about? You don’t know if it is harmful to you. Is it because we don’t know whether what is [...]
If you have an explanation of why you can’t do certain something, you are using it as an excuse not to do it. More importantly, you don’t value what you say you value. It is possible that you are being polite and seemingly agreeing with whoever you are talking to (even in a [...]
I read routine helps anxiety. Having a sense of control. As long as you feel you are in control you are less prone to anxiety. But is that living? Always in control because you are afraid of being anxious. Do you want a routine? It is conformity. I wouldn’t like it. More than [...]
Courage is an idea, so is fearlessness. In the now, it is just now. I can guess what you are thinking. Hash is saying another obscure thing. Let me go into a little bit. Courage is an idea created by comparison. Measurement through thoughts. How courageous are you compared to another? Same with [...]
I have stopped journaling. Well, that is not entirely true, I have restricted my journalling habits. I also have a journal section on this very blog. The way I use it has changed. I use it more or less share my internal world to others, it is no more a private affair that [...]
It is the nature of our brain. Our brains are programmed to solve problems. So, if you are not solving a problem, the brain is smart enough to create a problem, which it can then solve. It constantly looks for problems out there to fix. That is what worrying is. And most times, [...]
It is a moronic behavior to self-improve. The self who is trying to improve is the self that needs changing. It is fairly obvious that it is doomed to fail. It is a fallacy to self-improve. On the other hand, is it different from change? I am not talking about transformation. Transformation is [...]
No one likes a doormat, right? I mean a person who allows others to walk all over him or her. I’m talking more specifically about men in relating to women. Have a spine already, right? Have your own opinions. Don’t blindly agree to everything she says. Or to anyone. Other men too. Be [...]